Accept yourself, wake yourself up, change yourself.
Good morning, accompany you to read.
as the saying goes, "No one is perfect without gold."
people live all their lives, we spend all our lives correcting our shortcomings and pursuing perfection, but there are no perfect people in this world.
only by accepting ourselves can we wake ourselves up and change ourselves.
I often think of a sentence: "only afraid of standing, not afraid of being slow."
Yes, life, as long as you allow it, everything is the beginning.
Liu Bei during the three Kingdoms period, when he was the supreme officer of Xuzhou, because Xuzhou was a piece of fat meat, Yuan Shu, Cao Cao and Lv Bu all coveted Xuzhou for a long time, and always wanted to occupy Xuzhou and win the world.
but Liu Bei's strategic consciousness is not strong, and he is in such a complex environment, facing Yuan Shu in the south, Cao Cao in the west and Lv Bu in the north.
Liu Bei suffered a big defeat in a big war and a small defeat in a small war, and was beaten black and blue. In the end, Liu Bei lost Xuzhou and fled to Liu Biao in Xinye, far away from the land of the Central Plains.
this year, Liu Bei was 42 years old. during a drink with Liu Biao, Liu Bei lamented that he was in his 40s, a middle-aged greasy uncle, still living in this small place, achieving nothing, sad.
after accepting all this, Liu Bei did not "lie flat", but reanalyzed, cheered up, went to visit Maolu, the Eastern Union of Soochow, and the western control of Bashu.
finally at the age of 60, he called the emperor king.
Montaigne once said, "the greatest thing in the world is that a man knows how to be his own master."
whether in the face of that highlighted self or that helpless, fragile self, you can control everything only if you dare to accept yourself.
while we are always accepting others, it is easy to accept ourselves, but it is difficult to accept ourselves. Only by facing up to your mistakes and shortcomings can you find your own way to success.
the greatest spiritual practice in life is to accept yourself, both right and wrong, love and hate, let go of good and bad things, and eventually become a thing of the past. Learn to accept before you can be liberated.
wake yourself up
there is a saying: "the meaning of growth is to increase life experience and enrich life experience."
think about it, it is!
in the past, we have come a long way. In the future, we want to go further.
Tao Kan, a senior general of the Eastern Jin Dynasty, was a child of a poor family. When he entered officialdom, the family ignored it and senior officials despised it.
by the age of 42, Tao Kan still achieved nothing. Unreconciled, he changed his direction, put on his war shirt and went to build the army.
but as soon as he made some achievements, he was kicked back to his hometown by some villains.
when he got home, Tao Kan was not idle. He worked hard to exercise his body. Every morning, he moved 100 bricks from the back of the house to the front of the house, and in the evening, he moved the 100 bricks from the front of the house to the back of the house.
his family comforted him one after another. Tao Kan said, "I can't slack off. I have to keep myself awake all the time and start over!"
this move is ten years. Tao Kan moved from 57 to 67.
Life has been rare since ancient times. At this age, Tao Kan should prepare a coffin for himself.
but the court encountered a rebellion, and the Jin Ming Emperor remembered that Tao Kan, who was good at war, once again led the crusade.
in the end, Tao Kan won and was made a general so that he could go to the temple with a sword.
there is a good saying: "those who realize their ideals can wake themselves up." Don't indulge in decadence. "
We always think that learning is a matter of student days, and later we understand that keeping learning is a compulsory course for everyone.
in this era of fast-paced development, we always focus on other people's rapid promotion and good opportunities, but never pay attention to whether we know where our goal is and whether we are living a clear life.
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most of the time, you can start better by knowing where the way forward is, and you won't do useless work.
especially appreciate the sentence: "there are only two kinds of people in the world: one is the onlooker, the other is the actor." Most people want to change the world, but no one wants to change themselves. "
Yes, we always want to change others, but in the end, it is not that others have changed, but that we are becoming more and more disagreeable and uncomfortable. Only by changing ourselves will our life become more and more smooth.
in the Biography of Lou Shide in the Book of the New Tang Dynasty, he recorded such a story:
said that Di Renjie was so proud that he even excluded his benefactor Lou Shide, so that Lou Shide was put out.
Wu Zetian couldn't watch any more, so he asked Di Renjie, "what about Lou Shide?" Di Renjie said, "while he was in office, he was careful in his duties, but I don't know anything else."
Wu Zetian asked again, "can Lou Shide look at people?" Di Renjie said, "I was an official with him, and I've never heard that he can read people."
so Wu Zetian showed Lou Shide's chapter by Di Renjie to Di Renjie. After Di Renjie read it, he was ashamed and said bluntly that he was not as good as Lou Shide.
from then on, Di Renjie also learned from Lou Shide, recommended sages, was diligent in the administration of officials, and eventually became a generation of celebrities.
Confucius said, "the superior man asks for himself, and the villain asks for others."
in this world, we always ask others from our own point of view, but we don't know that the real master is to change ourselves.
Yes, it's hard to change yourself, but it's only hard for a while, not for a lifetime!
when you are not satisfied with others, you want to change yourself.You know, the highest ability of man is neither wisdom nor strength, but adaptability, an ability to adapt to any condition.
from now on, change yourself step by step and improve yourself step by step according to your goals! It will change the ending.
in the book Silent confession, there is a sentence: "all our lives, we want to get rid of the expectations of others and find who we really are."
No matter how complicated the world is and how impetuous the human heart is, loving oneself is the highest self-discipline of adults.
only by accepting yourself can you perfect yourself, wake yourself up, break through yourself, change yourself, achieve yourself, and lead to happiness.