Empty yourself (this article is priceless)

I have read a sentence that I particularly like:

on the way of growing up, because there are too many burdensome things, people will inevitably get lost.

the best state of life is to have the wisdom to empty yourself all the time.

01

experience emptying

writer Weina once said:

"Life is like a ship walking in the sea, all experiences are blank in the face of a tsunami."

if you think one old captain is enough, maybe the next sea breeze will sweep you to the other side of the sea. "

times are changing so fast that you never know what will happen tomorrow.

the philosopher Russell told such a fable:

in a farm, after ten months of observation, a turkey found that, whether sunny or rainy, Wednesday or Thursday, the keeper will always feed at nine in the morning.

so the turkey proudly claims to have discovered the first principle of the universe: food will come at nine o'clock in the morning.

this theorem has been accurate and useful for a long time, and this turkey is also enthusiastically sought after by other turkeys.

but the day before Thanksgiving, not only did the turkeys get no food, they were caught and killed.

this is the famous "turkey theory":

you think that you can be like a fish in water if you cling to the experience of the past, but you do not realize that the world is changing all the time, but the experience of the past will become the constraint of today.

A person will not be eliminated by the times only if he or she clears the past experience in time, maintains an empty cup mentality, and keeps learning.

02

desire to be empty  Qian's Family motto advocates frugality very much. Qian Yonggang, the son of Qian Xuesen, talked about several little things about his father.

first item: bag.

this bag was sent by Qian Xuesen when he attended the conference in the United States, and he brought it back when he returned home.

it has been used for 40 years, and the two sides of the package have been worn seriously and there are many mending marks, but they have never been changed.

the second item: the house.

in 1955, when Qian Xuesen returned home, he was assigned an ordinary three-bedroom apartment where he had lived for 50 years. During the

period, the organization gave him a new house many times, but Qian Xuesen refused: "I can't be too far away from ordinary scientific and technological personnel."

third item: pu fan.

among the relics left by Qian Xuesen, there are 11 pu fans glued with adhesive tape.

after 2000, many homes in Beijing have been equipped with air conditioners, but Qian Xuesen still spends the summer with pu fans.

Why do moneymakers advocate thrift so much?

one is to control desire so as not to become arrogant and voluptuous because of the lust for pleasure.

the second is to hope that future generations can pursue internal things, such as dreams, careers, hobbies, rather than external things, such as money, house, power.

desire is the source of one's pain.

the moral Classic also says: "greed cannot be encouraged, contentment can last long."

desire is endless, and the best life is hidden in the simplest contentment.

03

emotional emptying

hearing of love, there are nine sorrows out of ten.

in life, we have seen too many people who are trapped by love.

someone is lovelorn, but also full of unreconciled, pestering and refusing to let go.

there are also people who suddenly fall into darkness because of the breakdown of their marriage and have been unable to recover ever since.

but life is moving forward, and people are moving forward.

the south wall has been hit, so the story should be forgotten.

you should remember that the person you miss is not only the wrong person, but also the person of the past.

the feelings of the past, entanglement is useless, thoughts are useless, regrets are useless.

A person who indulges in the past and looks back step by step cannot be truly happy.

people who are really smart know how to format their feelings, let go of what should be put and forget what should be forgotten.

only by letting go of the wrong person can you meet the right person.

only by letting go of the past can the future come.

04

Achievement emptying

Bing Xin once said: "the crown is a temporary glory and a permanent bondage."

A person can empty his achievements at any time, which is a great wisdom and a great skill.

World King Pele has played 1364 games and scored a total of 1282 goals in his more than 20 years of football career.

he also created a brilliant record of scoring eight goals in a single game.

when he scored 1000 goals, the reporter asked him, "which football do you play best?"

Bailey smiled and said meaningfully, "next!"

the most important thing to look forward to in life is always tomorrow.

the best thing an aspirant can do is always the next thing.

I like the sentence

all the past achievements are fleeting.

Life is like climbing a mountain. After climbing a peak, you have to go down the mountain before you can climb another higher mountain.

only by getting rid of the shackles of the past and moving forward, can one be better than himself every day.

05

Age emptiness

the experience of Felix, a foreign female dancer, has always been inspiring.

when she was young, Felix was a professional ballet dancer who appeared on Broadway and performed in veterans of World War II.

44 years old, middle-aged, there is no place for her on the stage, but she has no obsession and regret, butStarted his own business and started his own fashion brand.

at the age of 50, Felix's fashion brand is doing a lot of work, but she is not content to start a business.

at the age of 63, she became an Air Force pilot and was appointed chief of transport aircraft during the Gulf War.

70, she began to learn Italian and French.

at the age of 75, she began to study music and fulfill her dream when she was young.

at the age of 80, she began to learn tango. Because of her good dance foundation, she stood on the stage and danced again.

at the age of 82, she began to take risks by writing the song "Free Fall" because she liked swings in the air.

85, she ran to parachute jump and shouted to people, "I'll come again."

94 years old, she focuses on yoga and tennis because she wants to keep fit.

Felix often encourages young people to say:

years are never defeated by beauty, and it is never age that defines a person.

people can be happy only when they forget their age.

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people will not be limited by age only if they forget their age.

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empty yourself in order to make a better start.

only by putting it in the air again and again, and constantly subtracting for life, can you find your own direction.