Everything is the best arrangement (this article is priceless)

on the road of life, there are mountains and valleys, sometimes rugged and difficult, sometimes smooth and easy.

but it is precisely because of these ups and downs that constitute a rich and colorful picture of life.

everyone wants life to be plain sailing, but this is often not the case.

nine times out of ten, bad things don't end well, sometimes good things don't end well, and bad things don't end badly.

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as the saying goes, "if you lose a horse, you can't know misfortune or misfortune."

but please believe that everything is the best arrangement, and all kinds of experiences will make us grow.

01

when you leave the wrong, you can meet the right

there is a saying: "the right person is like gold, how can it be easy for you to meet!"

I think so.

the person who is really right can be met but not sought.

We will meet countless people in our lives, and some of them will leave us eventually.

but there is no need to force or regret, because there will be better people waiting to meet us later.

when Zhang Youyi first reached the age of 15, she was betrothed to Xu Zhimo, the eldest son of the then Jiangnan wealthy businessman Xu family.

Xu Zhimo has studied abroad, has new ideas and hates arranged marriages.

when Xu Zhimo saw Zhang Youyi's picture for the first time, he curled down the corners of his mouth and said in a tone of disgust, "country bumpkin!"

after marriage, he has never looked Zhang Youyi in the eye.

what is even more abhorrent is that when Zhang Youyi had her second child, Xu Zhimo risked her life to have an abortion in order to be with Lin Huiyin.

A frightened Zhang Youyi said to Xu Zhimo, "someone died of an abortion."

Xu Zhimo said contemptuously: "there are still people who died because of the train accident. Do you see that people don't take the train?"

this also made Zhang Youyi completely cold to Xu Zhimo.

Zhang Youyi did not collapse after the divorce, but focused on her career and became a socialite at that time.

only when you leave the wrong person can you meet the right person.

later, Su Jizhi, a neighbor of traditional Chinese medicine, appreciated her strong patience, dignified manner, and independent self-improvement, so she began to pursue Zhang Youyi. Finally, with the blessing of relatives and friends, Zhang Youyi married Su Jizhi in Hong Kong.

Su Jizhi gave Zhang Youyi a really happy marriage.

there is a saying: "some people are destined to grow up."

all chances in life are not perfect. We will meet bad people as well as good people.

leaving the wrong people is not only a relief, but also a growth for us.

only by leaving the wrong person can you meet the right person.

02

suffering is for a better life

there is such a story in history:

after Zhang Xiaoxiang was the number one student in high school, Qin Hui tried to woo him, but Zhang Xiaoxiang refused.

Qin Hui felt that Zhang Xiaoxiang would threaten his own interests, so she tried to frame him.

Qin Jianyu's gang fabricated crimes out of thin air to frame Zhang Xiaoxiang's family and put his family in prison.

they want to threaten Zhang Xiaoxiang to become attached to him.

looking at the suffering family, Zhang Xiaoxiang, who has no money and no power, has nothing to do.

and during this period, Zhang Xiaoxiang was not only harassed by the Qin Juniu Party, but also often accused of rebellion.

A spate of disasters also made Zhang Xiaoxiang wonder if he should not have entered the official career in the first place.

but when Zhang Xiaoxiang, who suffered a lot of suffering, saw the sufferings of the people, he strengthened his inner principles and still insisted on honesty and integrity.

in the face of treacherous officials, Zhang Xiaoxiang bravely attacked; in the face of the people, Zhang Xiaoxiang relieved the poor.

Zhang Xiaoxiang was loved by the people and favored by the emperor, and his official position was getting bigger and bigger.

the ancient saying said: "therefore, heaven will bring down great tasks, so people must first work hard, work their bones and muscles, starve their skin, lack their bodies, and act in chaos with their actions, so they will be patient and gain what they cannot do."

moths that have not experienced the baptism of suffering are vulnerable.

the same is true of people. People will be vulnerable if they have not experienced hardship in life.

those who achieve great things grow up through all kinds of hardships.

Liang Qichao said: "adversity and hardship is the highest school for tempering personality."

suffering is the most precious asset in life.

people are either the strong to overcome suffering or the weak to succumb to suffering.

No one's success comes casually.

only those who withstand hardships can have a better life.