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as the saying goes, "Men are afraid of entering the wrong profession, while women are afraid of marrying the wrong man." Love is like seeing flowers in the fog. If you don't pick them with your own hands, you never know whether they are thorns or roses.
for women, marriage is a major event related to future fate and lifelong happiness.
often what kind of man you choose, you will live what kind of life.
silly women only know how to look at faces, stupid women patronize money, and smart women value these four things in men.
the other person's character
as the saying goes, "feelings are flowers, character is mountains, summer flowers are easy to die and mountains are hard to move."
whether a man is worthy of being entrusted or not, character is the most important cornerstone. And a person's character depends on his subconscious attitude towards you.
on Weibo, there was such a picture:
at the moment of the earthquake, the husband near the door immediately returned to the house, grabbed his wife and ran out with her.
later, my wife admitted in an interview: "it was the same with him before the earthquake, protecting me and my children with his body."
those men with reliable character will always care about you, worry about your warmth and safety, and regard your life as more important than your own in the face of crisis.
they may not have much ability to make you rich and rich, nor have they said many sweet words to you, but they are full of sincerity in their words and deeds.
when women choose marriage, they must first open their eyes and see each other's character clearly.
No matter how nice he says, you should carefully consider his actual actions.
because when trifles slowly infiltrate into pure love, too many promises and vows will go up in smoke.
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those men with bad character will be full of calculations in their eyes and turn a blind eye to your tiredness and efforts.
when you are sick for a long time, don't expect him to be considerate and take care of you.
as the writer Su Cen said:
A real man with good character will never abandon you or betray you when you encounter "adversity, poverty, and disease". Instead, he will be doubly kind to you, and such a man is worth giving his life.
the other person's temper
No one is born with a good temper, but mature and stable men tend to know how to control their emotions.
when you associate with such a man, you will gain not only the sweetness of life, but also infinite tolerance.
in fact, Grandma's youth has a lot to do with Grandpa.
Grandma said that when she was young, she had a bad temper, kept a bitter face all day, didn't say anything about doing housework, and it was easy to lose things.
but after marrying Grandpa, Grandpa always waits patiently for her to finish her work, and then quietly reorganizes herself.
even if grandma likes to change her style when she is tired of cooking, grandpa always happily praises her as a "gourmet master".
Grandpa has never been anxious with grandma in his life, but whenever someone says something wrong about grandma, grandpa will still hold that person to explain for a long time.
the two have spent most of their lives hand in hand, and grandma's temper has gradually become gentle. My mood is simple and happy, and my face is naturally much younger than my peers.
in fact, one or two can be seen from her face to judge whether a woman is happy or not.
I remember a sentence I have read:
men with a bad temper always like to haggle over all aspects of their lives. They only know how to live in their families and find a sense of existence in their families.
while men who are really responsible know how not to bring a bad temper home, they will communicate calmly with their loved ones and talk to their children with a pleasant face.
if a man can't change his bad temper, no matter how handsome he is and no matter how well-off he is, he must not marry.
because endless complaints, dislikes, and blows can make you feel lonely, feel inferior, and even completely lose your expectations for the future.
the other person's circle
some people say that if you want to get to know someone quickly, just look at the friends around him.
what kind of friends a man has indirectly reflects his level and quality of life.
I know a girl. She and her husband met at a friend's wedding, and they fell in love at first sight.
after the relationship, the girl dined with the man's friends many times, mostly talking about the opportunistic livelihood of "money makes money".
later, the girl inadvertently mentioned this when she was chatting with her best friend, who said bluntly that the man's circle was too messy and advised her to be cautious if she got married.
but the girl who was carried away by love did not listen to her friend's advice and quickly entered the hall of marriage.
after marriage, the girl slowly realized that "the tears after marriage are all the water in her head before marriage."
three months after giving birth, she found that her husband owed hundreds of thousands of foreign debts because he invested with his friends.
the two had a big fight, and the husband said harshly, "my good brothers have all voted. If I don't participate, I will be laughed at." As the saying goes, "birds of a feather flock together."
there are a group of bad friends around, no matter how firm the quality is, it will be gradually assimilated.
what kind of person you approach, you will take the same way; what kind of circle you enter, you will have what kind of life.
if a man has friends who are safe and take care of his family, there is a good chance that he will become a good helper in your marriage life in the future.
while his friends only care about eating, drinking and playing, do not like to work hard, over time, he will just sit back and enjoy his success.
lookThe other party's parents
Jane Austen once said:
the family situation here refers not only to the financial situation of the family, but also to the parents' values and patterns of getting along.
colleague Mei Yu decisively broke up with her boyfriend of two years last week.
it turned out that Mei Yu went to visit her boyfriend's parents and found that only her boyfriend's mother was busy in the kitchen, while her boyfriend and his father were lying there browsing their cell phones and watching football games, with no intention of helping.
during dinner, everyone began to move chopsticks, while her boyfriend's mother was still busy in the kitchen. Mei Yu wanted to wait for her aunt to eat with her, but her boyfriend said, "my family has always been like this, let's eat first."
at the dinner table, his father scolded his mother while eating, either complaining that the food was salty or that the food was not soft enough.
Mei Yu looked embarrassed. Looking at the scenes in front of her, she seemed to see what she looked like after marriage.
"original Family" says:
if the husband always turns a blind eye to his wife's efforts, the children will gradually become parents under osmosis.
and those children who grow up in the love of their parents will naturally know how to love.
Yang Ying once talked about her feelings about marriage in an interview. "I think girls still have to see each other's parents when they get married," she said. "
and shared the story when she and Huang Xiaoming first met:
this kind of thing seems ordinary, but it makes Yang Ying feel very warm.
she believes that Huang Xiaoming will be as kind to his wife as his father, and the two get along well after marriage.
the original family is often the most authentic background of a man, and all his personality traits will be reflected on it.
so observe the relationship pattern of each other's parents before getting married, because this is probably what your future marriage will look like.
in a sexual relationship, if a woman wants to go to a happy marriage, she might as well take a good look at each other against the above points to see if he is worthy of being entrusted for life.
No matter how good your appearance is, you will grow old one day; no matter how rich your family is, you will lose out even if you don't want to make progress.
A man's character and temperament determine whether he is reliable in marriage, and his circle and parents are the true portrayal of your marriage.
once you choose the wrong person because of a mistake, you may regret it for the rest of your life.