Never do 15 things to yourself
Good morning, accompany you to read.
Hemingway once said:
"We must get used to the fact that we stand at the crossroads of life without traffic lights."
when to stop and when to go is entirely up to us.
Life is not an act, and life has no NG.
as the saying goes, one step is wrong, one step is wrong. Sometimes, what you don't do is more important than what you do.
to be more secure in life, here are 15 things you should never do to yourself.
01
Don't squander your health.
Health is the capital "1" of life, and everything else is the "0" after "1".
if 1 is gone, it doesn't make sense to have more zeros.
nothing in the world is worth betting with our health, and youth is not the reason for us to squander our bodies.
Job is gone, you can look for it again;
money is gone, you can earn it again;
but without health, you have nothing.
keeping good habits and living healthily is more important than anything else.
02
Don't get angry for someone who isn't worth it.
to be angry is to punish yourself for other people's mistakes.
Life is too short to waste time on anger.
for some people and things that are not worth it, it will be much easier to smile.
if someone makes you angry, try to ask yourself, is it worth it?
instead of taking the time to be angry, it is better to take the time to be strong.
believe that when you are strong enough, the whole world will be kind to you.
03
Don't lose yourself in order to please others.
most of the time, we often do things we don't like to please others.
in the end, not only do you lose the respect of others, but you lose yourself.
live to realize your self-worth, not to cater to the wishes of others.
learn to please yourself and live the way you like so that you don't owe yourself.
as the English poet Oscar Wilde once said, "Love yourself is the beginning of lifelong romance!"
04
Don't pursue refinement when you are out of money.
the pursuit of refinement seems to be a common fault of this era.
without economic support, we should also buy big-name bags and cosmetics through frugality and borrowing.
this kind of "delicacy" created by external objects is only a kind of "pseudo-refinement" covered with consumerism sugar coating.
in the end, it will only make us slaves to desire, and then destroy us step by step.
the true refinement is the upbringing and decency from the heart.
is to have the yearning and pursuit of a better life within the scope of one's own ability.
05
Don't make any decisions on impulse.
impulse is an irrational emotion.
once a person loses his mind, he loses his objective judgment of things.
any decision made on impulse can be a lifelong remorse.
Don't let yourself become the devil's tool on the spur of the moment, hurting others and ruining yourself.
anyway, calm yourself down before you make a decision.
06
Don't ignore the person who really loves you.
how long has it been since you had a good time with your children?
how long has it been since you had a good chat with your lover?
how long has it been since you had a good meal with your parents?
stop using "busy" as a reason for lack of companionship and care.
everything you are busy is not only for yourself, but also for them.
No one knows which comes first, tomorrow or accident.
cherish those who really love you, and don't let your life leave regrets.
07
Don't regret your past decisions.
some people say, "the only lovely thing about the past is that it has passed."
now that it's over, there's no point in regretting it.
it can't help you save someone, nor can it make up for the mistakes you've already made.
the only thing we can do is to focus on the present and the future.
learn from past mistakes, learn from experience, and avoid moving from one mistake to another.
08
Don't imitate others blindly.
there are tens of millions of pirated copies in the world, but there is always only one original. The success of others can be used for reference, but must not be imitated.
you can imitate for a while, but you can't imitate forever, because other people's kernel is something you can never copy.
Don't let yourself be the shadow of others. No matter how good you are, you are only second to others.
build your own advantages, do your own originality, and you can always be number one.
09
Don't complain endlessly.
when life is not satisfactory, the most common and easiest thing we do is to complain.
but complaining is the most useless. it doesn't solve any problem, but makes it worse and worse.
Nobody likes a person who complains all day and has a lot of negative energy.
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instead of complaining endlessly, let yourself change.
trying to turn negative emotions into positive motivation is the best way to break the situation.
10
Don't stop learningAnd growing up.
Life is like sailing against the current, not to advance is to fall behind.
you can wait ten thousand years for yourself, but the world won't wait for you for another second.
when times abandon you, you don't even say hello.
keeping learning at all times is the best medicine to save everything.
No reason can stop you from growing up.
only by running hard can you not be eliminated by the world.
11
Don't compare with others everywhere.
We all know the truth of "comparing people to others, exasperating people", but we still can't help comparing with the people around us.
but it doesn't make any sense except to add annoyance to the past.
the ruler is short and the inch has its strong points. There is no need to be brave in front of others for the sake of face.
it's not shameful to admit that you are inferior to others.
as long as you are better today than you were yesterday, that's enough.
12
Don't always think about taking shortcuts.
shortcuts are the biggest lies in the world. People who always want to take shortcuts end up taking detours.
Don't try to rise to the sky in one step. No matter how good a carpenter is, he can't build a castle in the air without a foundation.
opportunistic, just deceiving yourself.
if you don't accumulate steps, you can't reach thousands of miles;
if you don't accumulate small streams, you can't become rivers and seas.
the road we should take in life must be one step less.
if you want to succeed, keep your feet on the ground, one step at a time, one step at a time.
13
Don't blindly start a new relationship.
True love, paying attention to fate, is to meet the right person at the right time.
Don't be in such a hurry. I'd rather be single proudly than make do with you.
being with the wrong person would be a very bad thing.
it is the greatest responsibility for yourself that you would rather lack than abuse.
instead of paying the wrong feelings, it is better to manage yourself carefully and wait for the flowers to bloom.