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as the saying goes: when you clench your hands, there is nothing inside; when you open your hands, the world is in your hands.

years urge people to grow old, and time forces people to move forward.

what I once thought would not pass has finally turned to dust after being polished day by day.

the past, which I once thought I was reluctant to give up, has become more and more blurred with the change of time.

to a certain age, gradually put down the stubbornness, found calmness, began to love themselves.

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the older you get, the more you understand the sentence: some people, some things, not yours, it is useless to force them.

until the last minute, you never know who will accompany you to the end and what is right for you to do.

blind persistence is to put shackles on the heart, wise to give up is to leave room for life.

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trapped in a bad mood for too long, it hurts the heart, too deep obsession will eventually pull yourself into the bottom of the mood.

as the old saying goes: whenever you work hard, you force it.

need to constantly please the feelings, perhaps from the beginning is not the same people, why cling to it.

things that cannot come to an end must be doomed from the beginning, and there is no need to struggle.

how many people give up all they have and don't give up until they reach the Yellow River, but they end up with nothing? it's just too stubborn.

look at ordinary things with a normal mind. after all, what is lost is the scenery, and what is left behind is life.

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Don't make do with it, enrich yourself

it is mentioned in

that we can't get the best, choose the second best, this is called making do, it is not love, it will be because you have no choice.

how much suffering there is in life is because you make do with it and wronge yourself, and you have no choice but to accept it in silence.

how tired life is because you have no choice but to meet with a wry smile.

A person's best view of life is not to barely maintain his happiness at the moment, but to fulfill himself for the rest of his life.

I like Su Cen's sentence very much: I would rather be alone than go against my will; I would rather regret it than let

if I give in too much, there will be no way out in the end; if I endure it for too long, it will eventually become a plate of loose sand.

people who really appreciate you will always love your proud posture, rather than your pretending to be humble and trying to please you.

A lot of people like to sigh: struggling is useless, it's better to save energy, but if you don't try, how can you know how comfortable life is?

A really smart person will never compromise with life at will, nor will he easily say "forget it".

the so-called letting nature take its course should be acceptance after going all out, rather than doing nothing in both hands

A good life is that after going through thousands of mountains and rivers, you can also say: I don't want to make do with it.

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Let yourself go

you must have had a moment when

has been maliciously slandered, and the more you explain, the worse the other person's scolding you will be.

being used to hurt, the longer you get entangled, the deeper you will be pulled into the quagmire.

in this world, some people have gold and jade, while others have failed.

you will always meet all kinds of people, and you can't avoid all kinds of strange things. If you keep entangling everything, you will only harm yourself in the end.

bite open an apple and find that there is a big piece of rotten fruit, so stop eating it.

A torn piece of paper finds that the hole is getting bigger and bigger, so don't mend it again and again.

if you entangle too much with bad things, you will only make yourself repeat the same mistakes over and over again, and you will no longer have the strength to get up again.

the worst revenge in the world is not caring.

as Nietzsche said in the other side of good and Evil: if you struggle with an evil dragon for too long, you will become an evil dragon. Gaze into the abyss for too long, and the abyss will return to gaze.

most of the time, it is your indecision that hurts you, and you will never walk out of this dark path because you return to square one again and again.

Life should have uncompetitive wisdom.

No entanglement, not just about others, but more about letting yourself go.

some experiences are only responsible for bringing lessons to you and making you grow up, so you are not qualified to live in your future.

those bad things, let them stay in yesterday forever.

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is willing to give up. Only when you give up can you get it.

Let go of the wrong to meet the right.

change your mindset before you can start over.

your life depends on your choice.

for the rest of your life, maybe you can do as Feng Zikai wrote:

"since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to be silly; since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to rejoice;

since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate; since there is no wish, it is better to be relieved."